We tend to disapprove of people who can not decide. But do not make decisions is a false problem, because it is impossible not to decide. The decision is not in fact a decision. If one should do one thing and delays in doing it, are choosing to delay in doing it. Although he is not aware. If one does not like a situation and not change, is deciding to keep it.
The problem, therefore, is not not make a decision: there is rather a more serious problem that we are suffering. It 's the not convinced of its decision. That is to say, when we are in a situation and we do not like, in whole or in part, if we wait for something without changing anything, we are actually accepted. But we are not convinced. And so we transform our lives in a meaningless limbo, where things are being pursued without conviction.
When we are not convinced we lose power, and the results tend to be negative. We tell ourselves that we are waiting to take the right decision, but it is not.
is why, whatever the situation where we are, we must be aware that this is a decision, and if it is a decision we have to be convinced. We have to be inside. That means acting like it was the best choice we could do. Otherwise, if we are not convinced it out. You change. But if you act confident.
So if you're not convinced of a situation or change it or convince. But do not be there to tell you that you have to decide, you've already decided.
(C) Diego Agostini / Commitment, 2010 - All Rights Reserved
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