In his masterpiece Catcher in the Rye Salinger describes a situation where a woman is moved to tears in a cinema during a screening of the film. But the protagonist warns: If you think that this woman had a tender heart, think again. "I was close behind her, with her was a boy who was bored to death and needed to go to the toilet, and she did not have wanted to bring. He kept telling him to sit still and do good. His heart wheat pretty much like a wolf, boy. "
Here is the proof of the facts. Beyond what people show, beyond what it says, beyond what appears to us, we submit other evidence of the facts. We check us directly actual reality, Let's face even if consciousness is not within our expectations and the way in which we are accustomed to seeing.
A friend says you're the person who most esteem in the world but you never call? The number of calls is evidence of the facts. A customer said he valued immensely but uses other suppliers? What occurs to you is proof of the facts. A boss says you're good, but gives rise to someone else? How much money you receive is proof of the facts. A colleague says to appreciate your work but then makes a decision that penalizes you? The decision which it is proof of the facts.
We often stop to what appears to us that we say, that make us believe. We react to the idea of \u200b\u200bthe behavior of others, not to the actual behavior. Why? Because often we are afraid of the conclusions we reach. He begins to put the image you have of the other evidence of the facts. Do not judge you: let them judge. You'll see how quickly you change your mind on many people.
(C) Diego Agostini / Commitment 2010 - All Rights Reserved
0 comments:
Post a Comment